Spirituality as a Couple: The Bible as a Routine of Faith

A Faith Shared at the Table

Spirituality in couple is not only about Sunday Mass or big moments of prayer. It can be lived quietly and meaningfully in daily life. One of the most powerful ways to live this shared faith is through consistent, small routines — such as listening to the Bible together during dinner.

This article will explore how integrating spiritual practices into couple and family life can transform your home into a sanctuary. You’ll also hear a heartfelt testimony from MAPS For Life about using the Hallow app for a daily practice of Scripture during dinner.

Why Shared Spirituality Matters for a Couple

Building Unity Through Faith

When couples make faith a central part of their relationship, it becomes a foundation of unity. Shared spiritual practices encourage mutual support, patience, forgiveness, and understanding. They also help keep God at the center of the relationship.

A Spiritual Anchor in the Daily Routine

With work, parenting, and daily stress, it's easy to let prayer and Scripture slip through the cracks. But incorporating spirituality in couple into your daily routine allows it to become a natural and regular part of your lives.

A Testimony: Listening to the Bible in a Year Over Dinner

One couple’s journey beautifully illustrates this idea. One of our team members shared how she uses the Hallow App. They found a way to unite their evenings and nourish body and soul.

“Every evening at the dinner hour, we’re doing the Bible in a Year. We use Hallow app, which is a powerful app. It’s a great thing to do over dinner. It’s a very contemplative thing to do. If you know about contemplative religious orders like monks or sisters, they often listen to Scripture in silence during meals. David and I are trying to keep the conversation focused on the Lord and Scriptures.”

Using the Hallow app, they follow the Bible in a Year with Fr. Mike Schmitz. Plates are on the table, the app is opened, and their focus is placed on God’s Word. This quiet moment shared is a beautiful model of spirituality in couple.

“We’re just getting it on right now. A lot of people have done the Bible in a Year, but this is how we decided to do it.”

Inspired by Monastic Life: The Power of Sacred Silence

Contemplative religious orders often practice sacred silence during meals while listening to Scripture. This practice, grounded in deep reverence, creates space for God’s voice to speak in the stillness.

Couples can borrow from this tradition by creating their sacred dinner rituals. Whether in silence or with prayerful conversation, mealtimes become more than physical nourishment — they feed the soul.

The Role of the Hallow App in Couple Prayer

How the App Works

The Hallow app offers a wide range of Catholic audio content: daily prayers, Rosary, Lectio Divina, and guided Scripture reflections. One of the most popular series is The Bible in a Year with Fr. Mike Schmitz.

Using Hallow as a Couple

Rather than squeezing spiritual time into busy mornings or late nights, couples can press play during dinner. This simple habit can turn the family table into a chapel. It’s practical, sustainable, and deeply impactful.

Explore more ideas and resources at MAPS For Life.

Other Spiritual Habits for Couples

1. Praying the Rosary Together

Spending 15-20 minutes together praying the Rosary builds spiritual intimacy and provides an opportunity for reflection.

2. Sharing a Weekly Devotional

Pick one evening a week to read and reflect on a devotional. Discuss how the message applies to your relationship and family.

3. Attending Mass as a Couple

If possible, go to daily Mass once a week. Even attending a holy hour together can deepen your shared relationship with Christ.

4. Morning Offering and Night Prayers

Begin and end your day by holding hands and offering a short prayer. These small moments bookend the day with grace.

5. Lectio Divina on Sundays

Take time on Sunday to read the Gospel together slowly, following the method of Lectio Divina: Read, Meditate, Pray, Contemplate.

Spirituality in Family: Engaging the Children

Couples can extend this faith habit to children by:

• Saying grace and adding personal intentions

• Reading a short children’s Bible story after dinner

• Playing a Christian playlist during family breakfast

Teaching kids that spirituality in a family is a joyful daily habit shapes their values for life.

Making the Most of Dinner Time

1. Set the Mood

Create a peaceful environment — light a candle, turn off screens, and clear the table. Invite the Holy Spirit through a short prayer before listening.

2. Choose a Plan

Use structured resources like the Hallow app’s Bible in a Year or daily Gospel reflections.

3. Follow Up with a Reflection

After listening, ask one or two questions:

• What word or phrase stood out?

• What do you feel God is saying to us today?

This turns passive listening into active discipleship.

Overcoming Challenges Together

Finding Time

It may feel hard to add something new to your schedule. But you don’t need an extra hour — just shift the focus of time you already spend together.

Being Consistent

Start with one or two nights a week and grow from there. It’s okay to miss a day. Just begin again.

Respecting Different Paces

If one partner is more religious than the other, be patient. Let love lead. Invite, don’t pressure. Small acts of faith often speak louder than sermons.

Reaping the Fruits of Shared Faith

Spiritual routines strengthen trust, patience, and peace. They help resolve conflicts with compassion. Most of all, they remind couples that God walks with them — in every conversation, every meal, every ordinary day.

Bring God Into the Everyday

Living a spirituality in couple is about choosing the sacred in the ordinary. You can turn your home into a place of peace by listening to the Bible together during dinner. These quiet routines create room for God to speak.

Your dinner table can become a holy place. Your app can become a sacred tool. Your love can grow through shared listening, reflection, and prayer.

Let your spiritual life begin where you are — with plates on the table and Scripture in your hearts.

Discover more ways to live your faith at MAPS For Life and explore our growing collection of Catholic ebooks designed for families like yours.

FAQs

1. How do we start a spiritual routine as a couple if we’re very busy?Start small. Pick two nights a week. Use time you already share, like meals or bedtime.

2. What if my spouse isn’t interested in prayer or Scripture?Lead by example, without pressure. Invite them gently and let the Spirit do the work.

3. Can children join in these routines?Yes! They can pray, listen, and reflect in simple ways suited to their age.

4. How long should dinner-time Scripture last?Even 15-20 minutes of listening and reflection can make a big impact.

5. What’s the best app for daily Catholic spiritual practices?The Hallow app is a top choice for Catholic families. It offers guided meditations, Scripture, Rosary, and more.